Farino, Thomas

Capt. Thomas Farino, Eng.26 THE GIFT OF STRENGTH Capt. Thomas Farino was the rock on which his wife, Mary, built her life. He was the baby in a family of six boys, sons of a New York City policeman. He was captain of Engine Company 26 in Manhattan, doing a job he loved. He was posthumously promoted to battalion chief. “I never knew anyone who woke up in the morning happy to go to work,” said Mrs. Farino. And his schedule allowed for a lot of family time. For their children, Jane, 10 and James, 6, it was like having another mother ‹ “five out of seven days they’d have Daddy at home.” “I’m not making it a fairy tale, everyone has good times and bad times,” she said. But the good times were rolling recently ‹ a new house, the fourth trip to Disney World. “He was the most content person I’ve ever met,” Mrs. Farino said. Throughout their 20 years together, she said, he would tell her: “Love me all you want, want me all you want, but don’t need me so much. You have to get your strength from someone higher than me.” After the attack, she thought: “Wow, this is what he was talking about. It was a gift he gave me by telling me I’m stronger than I think ‹ I know how happy he would feel to know that I believe I am stronger.” Thomas J. Farino‚ 37‚ captain‚ FDNY‚ Engine 26. Farino was posthumously promoted to battalion chief. The youngest of six boys‚ Farino’s father was a New York City police officer. With his wife of 20 years‚ he had two children. We miss you so much. We love you. Till we meet again… All our love, Mary Jane And Jimmy Mary Farino, spouse August 30, 1964–September 11, 2001 BORN IN: Queens, New York LIVED IN: Bohemia, Long Island, New York New York City Fire Department, Engine 26, Battalion Chief